Please give homosexuals an equal opportunity

Please give homosexuals an equal opportunity



Li Yinhe, a Chinese sociologist, introduced in his book "homosexual subculture" that homosexuality refers to the sexual tendency and behavior of the same sex. Whether male or female, the concept of "homosexuality" only appeared in the 19th century. Homosexuality is written in English.

At the beginning of the 20th century, medical studies believe that homosexual sexual orientation is mostly caused by genetic genes, and some are affected by sex hormones. Leonardo da Vinci, Michelangelo and Tchaikovsky are all members of the gay community. However, homosexuals have been discriminated against by society for a long time because of religious pressure and traditional ideas.

In 1990, the World Health Organization removed homosexuality from the psychiatric roster; in 1996 bbw ass , China's National people's Congress voted to pass the new Criminal Law, which no longer included same-sex sex in the crime of hooliganism; and homosexuality was removed in 2001 in the Chinese Classification and Diagnostic criteria for Mental Disorders.

At present, 10 countries, including the Netherlands, Belgium and Spain, have legalized same-sex marriage, and many countries, including Britain, France and Germany, have also legislated to recognize civil gay partnerships. On the 24th of last month, New York became the sixth state in the United States to recognize the legal status of same-sex marriage.

[homosexuals are like left-handed people. Although they are not the majority of the population, they are also part of the crowd. Except that the object of sexual orientation is the same sex, they are no different from heterosexuals.]

ELLE: Lu Liping retweeted Weibo, saying that homosexuality is depraved, guilty and in need of salvation. How do you feel after seeing it?

Cheng Qingsong: I think Lu Liping is an excellent actress who has played many different characters and roles. Many directors and actors who have worked with have made gay films, and many makeup artists and stylists are homosexuals. It is not appropriate to respect people with different lifestyles and understand this group better than the general public, but make such erroneous remarks on an open platform. How many years ago was the Bible written? There are not only homosexuals, but also crimes such as remarriage and abortion. Now that the entire human environment has changed, we should not interpret modern society with paranoid religious teachings.

ELLE: Li Yinhe said that this view is "cliche, ignorant and backward", and it is inexcusable to express such a view as a public figure. There is also a lot of abuse on the Internet. What do you think?

Cheng Qingsong: she attacked homosexuals with teachings, which infuriated everyone. But abuse is useless, I do not support it, and condemnation is not the ultimate goal. It is important to use this opportunity to start discussions so that people can understand the gay community, return to common sense, and eliminate prejudice and discrimination.

ELLE: there is a view that it is not confident to fight back, that homosexuality is no longer a vulnerable group, is it necessary to have a heated discussion?

Cheng Qingsong: it is necessary and important, as Kang Yongge (Cai Kangyong) said, "many homosexuals are still suffering from exclusion. No matter how futile such a discussion is, it is a glimmer of light." online speech may not bring much change, but it can spread the point of view and make people pay attention to the neglected rights of homosexuals. Teacher Li Yinhe submitted the same-sex marriage law proposal to the two associations every year, knowing that it could not be done, and this is hard work best penis pump , until one day homosexuality becomes very common, no one blames and no one praises, that is progress.

ELLE: what do you think is the biggest misunderstanding about homosexuality in society?

Cheng Qingsong: one is the "frustration theory", which holds that we become homosexual because of the failure of heterosexuality and the divorce of our parents, which is definitely not the case. there is also the "treatable theory", which thinks that homosexuality is a disease and needs treatment and can be "corrected". For example dildo shop , Sun Haiying and Lu Liping say that "God can heal you". This is ridiculous. Medical research has said that homosexuality is determined by DNA. There are also perverts who say that although homosexuality has been removed from the dictionary of psychiatry, many people still find it "disgusting".

ELLE: so what kind of group do you think homosexuality is?

Cheng Qingsong: they are just like left-handed people. Although they are not the majority of the crowd, they are also part of the crowd. They go to and from work, go to school and finish classes. Except that the object of sexual orientation is the same sex, they are no different from heterosexuals.

[according to statistics, the gay and lesbian population accounts for 3-4% of the population, and there are 39 million-52 million homosexuals in China. If calculated on the basis of an average of 3.7 people per family, the affected population is 1.4-190 million].

ELLE: what do you think is the emotional difference between homosexuality and heterosexuality?

Cheng Qingsong: heterosexual marriage will involve cars, houses, children, more material and realistic, homosexuality rarely involves these, but more emphasis on emotional quality, think that two people together is the most important. Although it is relatively easy for gay people to break up because there is no marital constraint, the pain is the same.

In ELLE:2005, you disclosed your love story on your blog and became the first person in the mainland show business to "come out" online (publicly expressing your sexual orientation). Why did you do so?

Cheng Qingsong: I was the first one to be made public on the Internet. in real life, there are some people who are earlier than me, including directors, photographers, painters and so on. I announced "coming out" because I wanted to test the reaction of the public. I was prepared in advance that if people were unfriendly or discriminated against me, I would be prepared to lose these friends. But as a matter of fact, I didn 't. on the contrary, people thought that I was very frank and honest, and gave me a lot of encouragement. A first-line movie star who didn't come out immediately sent me a text message and said, "you are our pride, we support you", which was really touched.



ELLE: many homosexuals leave messages online saying they envy you because you have the support of your parents.

Cheng Qingsong: I also went through a process from my first love at the age of 19 in 1987 to 2004. My first love was scattered by both parents. When my boyfriend's mother found out, she sued my work unit, and the whole county knew all about it. At that time, my parents did not understand and thought that the two children were just fooling around, but then I never found a girlfriend, so they understood and acquiesced in. It was not until 2004 that they saw on television the first mother who openly supported her gay child, the editor Wu Youjian, who had helped me before, and was shocked. My father told me that he would support me like Mr. Wu. This sentence is enough for me for a lifetime. I feel that the original estrangement with my parents is gone all of a sudden.

ELLE: how many homosexual groups are there in China? How many people are as publicly identified as you?

Cheng Qingsong: teacher Li Yinhe mentioned in the proposal of the same-sex Marriage Law that according to statistics, the gay and lesbian population accounts for 3-4% of the population. According to this calculation, there are 39 million-52 million homosexuals in China. Based on the average of 3.7 people in each family, the affected population is 1.4-190 million, which is not a small group.

Many of them have been made public in the circle of relatives and friends, but not many have been made public. A friend of mine has two Weibo posts, one posting serious content in public and the other communicating with gay friends in private. Each time he split into two people. There are a lot of people like him.

Although not every comrade will get married with the same-sex marriage law, it is an equal right, and fighting for this right is also a force to promote social progress.

ELLE: what is the most difficult situation for the gay community right now?

Cheng Qingsong: marriage has no legitimacy and feelings lack sense of security.

ELLE: what is the importance of same-sex marriage law?

Chen Qingsong: although not every comrade will get married with the same-sex marriage law, just as not everyone will get married with the same-sex marriage law, it is a kind of equal right. After the passage of the same-sex marriage law in the UK, homosexuals can marry when they reach the age of 18, but whether heterosexuality is 16 years old, it is still different, and there is still discrimination, so they continue to fight for the rights of these two years.

ELLE: even if the same-sex marriage law is passed, it does not mean that discrimination will be eliminated.

Cheng Qingsong: yes, but with this, heterosexuals will know, "Oh, homosexuals can also get married" will eliminate discrimination more quickly. Fighting for equal rights for homosexuals is also a force to promote social progress.

ELLE: you have said that in our society, invisible violence and discrimination are not rare. Although some people say to you, "I am not against homosexuality", they are discriminated against at heart. What is discrimination in its essence?

Cheng Qingsong: discrimination in the bones is the way of thinking caused by congenital education, just like the gender education we received. In ancient times, it was said that women should follow the four virtues. Now it is said that women should wash clothes and cook. These come from education and form culture, which is terrible. Homosexuality is precisely opposed to male chauvinism: I am a man, I do not do what men do, I choose another orientation, which in itself is the greatest deconstruction of the patriarchal society. Foucault specifically stated that if a civilization cannot accept homosexuality, it is not a civilized society.

ELLE: how can this discrimination be eliminated?

Cheng Qingsong: it takes time and education to popularize common sense. I realized that I liked boys when I was 14 or 15 years old. I was very scared at first, because the education I received from an early age was heterosexual. Suddenly one day I found that I just didn't like girls. What should I do? Later, when I unwittingly opened A Dream of Red Mansions and saw the description of homosexuality in it, I began to understand that I was not alone. At present, there is education about homosexuality in primary and secondary schools in the West, as well as in Taiwan. Physiological books will write about what homosexuality is like, but there is no such education in our country.

ELLE: as a homosexual, what kind of environment would you like to live in?

Cheng Qingsong: legalization. For example, homosexual films are prohibited in film laws and regulations, such as "Lanyu" and "the intoxicated Night of the Spring Wind" cannot be released to the public, homosexuals are not allowed to donate blood in the blood donation regulations, and homosexuality is excluded from the Marriage Law. I want to get married now (laugh). I'm all wearing a suit, shirt and tie. I'm so happy! Although marriage is not necessarily so beautiful, but generally speaking, everyone will still look forward to it.
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