When young men and women become lovers from friends, especially after entering the exciting, sweet and happy stage of passionate love, the boys often forget themselves, as if everything around them has disappeared, and only the enthusiasm of love and emotional intoxication exist. When you snuggle up to your beloved girl and fall in love with each other, it is easy for the boys to have sexual impulses.
Sexual impulse is an internal force that tends to the goal of the opposite sex and is a normal sexual psychological phenomenon. After the man enters puberty, the body sex hormone secretes unceasingly, each kind of physiological function has the mutation, causes the reproductive organ and its function to develop into maturity rapidly. During the period of passionate love, the emotional, emotional, memory, imagination and other psychological activities related to sex are extremely active. The girl's bright eyes and white teeth, slim figure and fragrant smell, in short, all the stimuli brought by the girl to the young man's sense of sight
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If feelings are compared to oars, then reason is the rudder. Only with the tacit cooperation of the two
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Adjust your sexual impulses in love
First, the mystery of "sex" should be broken. Due to historical reasons, in our country, people talk about "sex" color change, "sex, also" thought is deep-rooted in the minds of some people. Therefore, boys should read some books on introductory knowledge to enhance their ability to control sexual impulses and reduce the mystery of "sex".
Second, young men should strengthen their will training. When the sexual desire produces, should use the corresponding method to remind, hint oneself, in order to alleviate the sexual impulse. In addition to falling in love with a girl, you can also participate in some useful social and recreational activities with her to distract attention from sex and sublimate love. You know
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Third, when you get along with girls, you should appropriately reduce continuous love words and excessive intimacy. From a physiological point of view, touching, kissing and hugging are the most likely to arouse a man's sexual desire. Therefore, the boys should be good at self-restraint. As Shakespeare said, "Love is the same as charcoal. If you burn it, you must try to make it cool." Let it burn at will, and it will scorch a heart. " Because sexual behavior not only involves responsibility to yourself
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Fourth, appropriate use of masturbation behavior. When boys' sexual passion breaks out and is out of control, as long as masturbation is a hobby and does not harm others and society, it can be regarded as an emergency way to regulate and dredge sexual impulses.
Pay attention to the change of sexual desire during adolescence.
Sexual desire occurs during puberty, some people are earlier, some people are later, some people are stronger, some people are weaker. There is no need for teenagers to pay special attention to this. Libido reflects natural physiological changes, and it's not a shady thing, so don't feel guilty about it.
However, human sexual civilization has many necessary social restrictions on sexual desire and behavior, and it is private to regard sex-related psychological activities and behaviors as privacy, which makes human beings generally have a sense of shame related to sex. Although teenagers have sexual desires, they will talk about sexual things casually regardless of the occasion and restrain their sexual desires. This kind of performance is normal, which shows that teenagers take a rational and responsible attitude towards their own desires.
Some people compare sexual desire with appetite and call the state of unsatisfied sexual desire sexual hunger, just as people with a strong appetite are hungry because they do not have access to food. This analogy is not appropriate, because no matter how strong sexual desire can be suppressed, and will not produce any serious adverse consequences, on the contrary, it also shows a person's psychological maturity and strong self-control. But if you don't get food, you will starve to death, so the two conditions cannot be compared.
Some people think that puberty develops early and sexual maturity is early, but teenagers are studying longer and longer in order to acquire the modern ability to make a living independently. In ancient times, the "ten-year cold window" can be used to take exams and top students in the middle. Now that I have been studying for ten years before graduating from junior high school, it will take more than a decade or more to go to high school, go to college, and study for a degree. You have to endure sexual hunger before you have the ability to make a living independently and get married. Sexual hunger for a long time complicates the sexual problems of young people. Is to allow premarital sex, this problem can not be solved?
This is how some people in society who hold the view of "sexual freedom" publicize to people. Some teenagers also mistakenly think that this is the best understanding of them, and have sex under the domination of this idea of "sexual freedom". Under such circumstances, when the teacher tells the students that they should not behave like this and that both boys and girls should maintain their virginity, people who are influenced by the idea of "sexual freedom" will think that this is sexual imprisonment and conservative ideas. What is the reason why teenagers are more easily influenced by the idea of "sexual freedom"? It is that teenagers are in a state of sexual hunger that is exuberant and impossible to satisfy.
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